This PR fixes a critical race condition in SRS source managers where
multiple coroutines could create duplicate sources for the same stream.
- **Atomic source creation**: Source lookup, creation, and pool
insertion now happen atomically within lock scope
- **Consistent interface**: Standardize on `ISrsRequest*` interface
throughout codebase
- **Handler simplification**: Remove `ISrsLiveSourceHandler*` parameter,
obtain from global server instance
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Co-authored-by: OSSRS-AI <winlinam@gmail.com>
